Visiting churches

Well, actually, we didn't go to church yesterday. Kathy wasn't feeling up to her usual self and I didn't mind much because I was feeling a bit tired too for some reason. Some days you just don't feel like putting it in high. You'd rather just coast along down hill. No reason really except I just couldn't get a full head of steam.

We spent some time in the morning with the grandkids at my son's house then we went to Mellow Mushroom for lunch. She had only eaten there once and I am fond of their Mighty Meaty pizza. I was able to talk her into it and, as always, it was delicious, filling and gave me unbearable heartburn. It's a small price to pay for a good, fattening pizza.

I love anything Italian and everything Italian gives me heartburn. But, it's something I've resigned myself to and am commited to using appropriate medication just so I can enjoy the taste.

What I was really wanting to share before I got off on those rabbit trails was our visit to West Hill church. We visited a week ago and was really struck by how friendly everyone was. We returned last night to attend their Christmas part. It was an 80's themed party catered by Waffle House. I didn't know Waffle House catered but they do and, of course, it was good. We had waffles, eggs, grits and bacon or sausage. We also had karoke (fun and entertaing because few of them could sing).

Again, this church is very friendly. We had a number of people to stop by and introduce themselves and actually stick around to get to know us better. Kathy was even invited to a wowen's retreat by a very nice lady who at first thought we were regular attendees.

Now, I've visited many churches over the years and I was genuinely suprised by this church's warm, inviting acceptance of others. I wonder how they do it? How do they instill that sort of friendliness and acceptance of strangers? I have no idea really. I don't think preachers can preach it into people but I'll bet the leaders have a great deal of influence by example.

The church we recently left had that reputation for a number of years. I'm not sure if they still do or not. I hope so, but I just haven't had the opportunity to find out lately. I think the reason we had the reputation in the beginning was because our first pastor was very friendly. That sort of thing is contagious. I think friendliness makes other people feel safer to be friendly. It's like somone's courage rubs off on you. Who knows? I'm no expert, I'm just guessing.

So, for those of you who wish your church was more friendly I'd recommend a visit to this church and perhaps a study of it to see how it ticks. I'll definetly visit again just because I already feel like I'm a part of it.