A Month Of Thankfulness - Thankful for my Daughter Joy

Of all my kids, Joy is the most appropriately named. She is a joy to be around and just naturally brings joy to those around her. Being the last was a challenge I'm afraid. By the time she was born we had 3 other little rambunctious toddlers running around and she ended up competing to get attention. Of course, she fit right in and kept up as best she could. We did spoil her a bit though.

With three others vying for attention we tended to just give her what she wanted. It's like Bill Cosby once told one of his kids who were complaining that their younger brother had their stuff, "just give her what she wants, she's got my stuff too"! She'll admit she was spoiled too, but she overcame it well.

Joy was undoubtedly designed to be a mother. She has 3 kids now and is doing a great job taking care of them and keeping them in line. They all know she loves them and they all know she's the boss (after their dad). When she gives an order there is no doubt she will follow up if it's not carried out, but she also shows them grace when it's needed. I marvel at her motherly skills.

Joy is also a loving and loyal wife. She and her husband have a solid, fun and good relationship together. They laugh at and with each other without apology or inhibition and they can correct each other safely without the other getting their feelings hurt.

Now, if you know Joy you know she loves animals. Although I had large dogs around when they were growing up I can do without animals in my life now without a problem. But, Joy does not know that there are limits on how many animals a suburban family can handle. She's not a crazy cat lady, but she does push her husband's patience at times when she talks about getting another dog. At the latest count she had 2 chihuahuas and a boxer and was asking around for another large dog for their boxer to play with.

Joy was not planned, but then again I don't remember planning any of our kids. But, the best things in life are suprises anyway. Joy was a great suprise and continues to be a joy in our family. Thank you God for Joy.